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Summary of Question:	Tough Decision
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 4/02/2009 9:32 PM MDT

I have a big decision to make and need some guidance. I am a virgin and met a girl who is not and slept with one guy, i believe in god a lot and trust he is leading me the right way and I am looking to get married and so is this girl and was wondering even though she is not a virgin should i consider her seriously for marriage? i am worried that i will make the wrong decision in gods eyes. thanks

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Dear one, there are many more issues more important to be concerned about in this relationship than her being a virgin or not. Is she devoted, and graceful and humble and prayerful, dedicated, committed, easy to communicate with......If you are feeling insecure because this would be your first...please relax. If all other things are good in this match, then let that one thing go and accept her for all the good things that you share. SK