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| Sat sri akal Jatinder jee I can only write what worked for me while treading marriage waters. FLASHABACK to 1983. [1]Dad said i was over 25 and ready to amke a living so it was time to get married. [2]Mom said what are my preferences in a girl. She suggested Character, education and personilty! I liked it. I said a girl from science background becasue I was an Artsie. She said okay! [3]Dad said "I have one desire only: no money [dowry] must be asked. REST is up to you guys!" Wow! [4]Mom went to Ndia two weeks ahead of me becasue I said I wanted her screen girls and give me names of four or five girls to see. [5]I reaCH THERE and we had tea and spent less then hour with each. Fourth girl I spent 15 minutes before I knew it was her. My tows twitched! [6]Next day we were legally married and I came to canada. [7]she came ten months and 210 letters later! Our understanding was built through letters. [8]we didn't date before marriage BUT we have been dating ever since. Every day I am inlove more and more. I am not ashamed to express it either. I let people know how much I love her and they think I am weird!! SO I guess I am!! My wife can't believe it either! HEY 18 years and still going by grace of God!!!! We hopefully are one by now. PS: yes we do have civilised arguments and love controls our fights. NEVER do I argue with hate. It is like "Honey didn't you promise to be ready about 40 minutes ago or am I mistaken!" AND my favorite one liner which makes her smile "Honey would you please forgive me at least when it is YOUR fault." HEY LIVE IT UP!!! js singh |
