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Siri Singh Sahib Bhai Sahib Harbhajan Singh Khalsa Yogi Ji
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Lecture on: 07/15/1984
Category: Relationships
Location: Espanola, NM
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M * A * R * R * I * A * G * E

You all have to realize what a marriage is. Marriage is not an easy path. Marriage is a life. Marriage is not a ceremony,
marriage is God.

Marriage has not been understood by the Western world at all. It was understood by the Eastern world but it is forgotten
there too. So at this time, the institution of marriage is in total limbo. People do not know what to do with it; people do not
know what to do without it. So what we have found out via the media is that marriage then divorce and divorce then marriage
is a continuous process.

But actually if we all understand what marriage is, then perhaps we can do better. Marriage is an institution of willingness, in
which two identities want to amalgamate. It’s an amalgamation of two egos to bring out a neutral new personality.

What is the advantage of it and what is the disadvantage of it ? When this amalgamation happens then divine power in the
psyche starts to function. Without that, people are individuals and they will only yell and scream at each other and goodness
will never come in that home. It is a granted fact.

Marriage bring happiness. It’s an amalgamation of two psyches. And when these two psyches are amalgamated, neither one
is an individual. There is no question of he and she. That’s it. There is no loss, there is no gain and there is no bank account.

"This is what my husband said" does not exist. "I will ask my wife" does not exist. If there is no confidence that the husband
can speak on behalf of his wife and the wife can speak on behalf of her husband, they have not yet married. If this is the
commitment, that the husband cannot commit on behalf on his wife and the wife cannot commit on behalf of her husband, they
do not know what commitment is.

To make an alloy, you take two elements and put them together. The alloy cannot be separated. You can boil it, you can
form the alloy into a liquid, you can totally burn it, but once it becomes an alloy, it will totally keep its own quality, own
quantity, own weight, own molecules, own electrons, protons and neutrons, and own combination. Whatever made brass
doesn’t matter. Brass has its own faculty, own quality, own weight and own property.

And that is what love is, that is what marriage is, that is what life is, that is what good luck is. There are no two opinions about
it; when a male and a female merge together. That’s why we do it before God. That's why we do it before Guru.

Siri Singh Sahib Ji, KWTC July 15, 1984

Above Article Copyright Yogi Bhajan 2002. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.



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