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Summary of Question:	Re 2: Love On Net
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Monday, 7/07/2003 6:03 PM MDT

this is a reply to the girl who posted - Love on Net

My Dear Friend

Im not here to hurt your feelings, or judge you in anyway. im jus here to help, so i hope you will look a this post with a clam view.
You say your in Love? But are you sure, u say that you parents have taught you not to have a bf. Therefore im assuming that you havent had one. So sometimes when a person doesnt receive a cetain type of emotion, when they actually obtain it, they are overwhelmed.
See, im sure you sttracted to this persons speech, his ideas, his friendliness to you, ut you may be mistaking this for love (although i may be wrong, you may truly be in love with this person, but this isnt for me to decide).
Also, you said you have never met him. Therefore, you only know him via, email? or an IRC program, or closest, phone right?. But never in person. Basically what im trying to say is, you dont know him as well as u think. See, words are different to actions. Its best you meet this person, get to know him, his actions, his thoughts, his way before you spend the rest of your life with him.
Words are different. Lots of people meet on the net, and then have conversations, but you need to remember, you are falling in love with their words, not them.
What if you meet him, and you dont like some of his habits, or his family. OR maybe, u may jus not connect. People are different in person, some are shy, some are more open, some are more reserved etc etc.
Look, im not here to burst your bubble. Im not saying dont pursue this. Because maybe this is how God wanted you to meet you soul mate. But dont rush into things. because you are not marrying the PC, you are marrying this person, his habits, his family, everything. Im not saying you wont have to change, he has to think about this as much as u do. but pls make sure.
I wish you all the best and i really hope this person is the one for you who will keep you happy for the rest of his life. But do this properly. Get you parents involved, and meet him first.
Take care
Samar ([email protected])

(REPLY) Sat Nam. Yes, the bottom line is wise advice: "Get your parents involved,and meet him first!"