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Summary of Question:	Re:Sikh Girls In Uk
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Friday, 3/25/2005 1:01 PM MDT

hi, i was the one who gave my point of view on the subject (a girls view)

i just wanted to say something to the previous person who wrote a message on this subject - u asked y do sikh girls approach muslim guys even when they know that they are going to use them etc?

well to be honest i really dont know why the girls do this!! maybe its because of the uk culture - its perfectly fine to go out with someone casually. maybe these girls just want a casual relationship-no strings attached etc??

another reason may be that these girls just want to rebel? whilst growing up we are surrounded by stories of how bad muslims are-keep away from them. maybe these girls are curious as to why they are so bad or they want to rebel against their parents & the thing that would hurt the most to the parents is sikh girl with muslim guy??

i also think that if parents gave their daughters more freedom & trust that the girls wouldnt go crazy like this when they do get their freedom. i really do believe that this is the key thing. my parents are great-ive always had lots of freedom & i know this is because they have full faith in me. i couldn't dream of doing anything that would break this faith.

anyone got any other reasons?

plus i really dont think that the community can do much about it. everybody is responsible for their own life. if they make a mistake they will pay 4 it. its up to them