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Summary of Question:	Re: Women Out There Who Do Like Guys In Turbans.
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Saturday, 8/06/2005 6:24 AM MDT

well i live in east london which is a nearly all muslim area and as a result dont get to mix with sikh girls and its a bit obvious that since 9/11 and the bombings in london the an asian man with a beard and turban has had very negative attention towards them, so thats why i was curious with knowing "Women Out There Who Do Like Guys In Turbans" becuase these days clean shaven guys, if you were to ask them, dont want to really wear a turban is because of women and not because they're any any less of a sikh than me. now what im seeing is that women dont even want to marry guys in turbans when i go to weddings i see the groom in a turban it sort of gives me hope that women are attracted to turbanned guys; but soon afterwards the groom takes his turban off and we realise he's clean shaven or now what im more commonly seeing is that that a turbanned singh (with full kesh) does get married but after a while his wife makes him cut his hair, which happened to a guy down my street he tried to say hello to me but i didnt even recognise him! but now my biggest fear isnt get a girlfriend which i feel will happen when the time is right but that in order to get married i will have to cut my hair in order to get married to someone in the UK or go to india, and people have told me that women in the punjab dont really care about you that they only want to come the UK.

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My dear brother, I understand what you are going through.

Have patience and strong faith the Waheguru will provide for you. I had to wait a REALLY long time to find a real Sikh woman who would accept and love my turban. But they are out there. It is much more satisfying to find a real Sikh woman who WANTS to have a turbanned husband than it is to compromise with yourself and lose your identity.

Hold on brother. Your Gursikh is coming for you. It is up to you to have faith in the Guru and wait for his blessing to you.