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Summary of Question:	Taking A Soh And Then Breaking It
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Monday, 3/19/2007 8:44 PM MDT

Hi! Well, I recently started visiting the site. I find the question and answer forums so helpful. They really are able to help ease some of the anger or thoughts that go within sikh youth that we are unable to talk about in real life.

Im a Sikh girl, and believe strongly in Baba Ji. However, i've done some wrong things in life and lately these things have been on my mind a lot. The biggest is i have sworn on god and sworn on my parents and i feel like i have broken these sohs.

I dont know what to do. I love God and I love my parents to death. I would give up my life for them. I dont want nothing to happen to them because of my stupidity. What can I do to make this mistake better. I have gone and aplogized to Baba Ji many times. I have talked to him about this. But I feel he is making me realize this because I have done something wrong.

What can I do to make this better?? :(
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Satnam ji,
Words spoken in anger and emotion are usually regretted.
Every human being has this capacity....kam krod loh moh. Accept one of these into your sphere and all the rest come to you. God is forgiving and Guru explains to us how to live in God consiousness with grace.

So, You must do 2 things: 1.First, not only ask for forgiveness from Guru ji but also ask for forgiveness from yourself.
Every day go to Baba-ji and bow and say out loud: In the name of Guru I bless you and forgive you, bless you and forgive you, bless you and forgive you.
Then say this in the name of Guru I bless and forgive myself, bless and forgive myself, bless and forgive myself. Do this you 14 days.
2. Find a seva to do that you can commit to for one month......shoe, langar, teaching the little children. Do some service action to earn your own forgiveness.
Blessings,
SKKK