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Summary of Question:	The Movement Of Life
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 6/08/2005 3:53 AM MDT

Hi,

I feel that what I have to say words cannot describe alone. Firstly I would like you to understand my background. I'm a final year Engineering student at university and will be graduating at the end of the year (finally). I keep my hair an I'm not amritdhari (for now). This question isn't about complaining about girls or about my lack of confidence when it comes towards dealing with the oppsite sex, Its more about what lies ahead for me as a young sikh

I live with my parents and I know that life for me will be changing very soon as I gain independance. I know its ment to be an exciting time but I can't help feeling scared. At times I worry so much at my predicament. Questions keep getting raised in my head. Will I acheive my goals ? Will I have enough money for a comfortable life ? Will I get married to a girl of my dreams ?....etc. Sometimes I can get pretty badly depressed. I have all these things I want to do and I don't know if I will ever be able to acomplish it. for example my dream is to work overseas in america (I've lived Australia pretty much my whole life). But I dunno what to do.

What does Gurbani have to say about this ? Is there anything I can do to ease my pain (that i have self-inflicted). Perhaps You may feel that this question is not worthy.....but I believe its something that faces all youth eventually....Its how you handle it...Im having a hard time.

Thankyou
Fateh

---reply

Sat Nam Fateh, Yes, every youth goes throuth what you are going through. One of the curses of youth is impatience. EVerything will unfold as should if you are patient and keep your faith in Guru. Take it step by step. Keep your options open and research those options. What are your options in Australia? What are they in America? What do you want in your life? What are your career goals? The clearer you are about your goals, the easier it is to manifest them. Bless you. GTKK