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Summary of Question:	Can He Hug Me And Kiss Me On Forehead?
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Monday, 3/16/2009 12:34 AM MDT

Firstly, thanks so much for the great service, may waheguru bless you all and keep you all in chardi kala.

I fell in love with a wonderful sikh boy, but due to some reasons he could not marry me, thanks to waheguru ji for giving me strength, I've finally moved on.

I had a healthy discussion with him and told him that though you are not my husband, I really want you to be my veer(brother) as he is my best friend, he said no as he kissed me when we were together and said he cannot forget that. I call his wife bhabhi (sister-inlaw).

He said to me that whateva has happened in life, you are still my best friend, and will always be and i love u as my best friend. He said wheneva we meet, I want to hug you as my friend and kiss you on the forehead as I adore you. I said ok but I love you as my veer and your wife as my bhabi.

He even said that he'll try to find a match for me, wheneva the right time comes.

Did I do right by saying yes to him for hugging me and kissing on forehead?

Thanks

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

waheguru ji ki fateh

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Dear one, if he cannot agree to be your brother then leave him forever. He is acting like a jerk and wants to string you along as you still have affection for him. Go away and do NOT let him touch you!
SK