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Summary of Question:	I Want A Baby
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Sunday, 3/25/2007 8:17 AM MDT

I want a Baby

I have been married for 4 years now. I am 35 and still not pregnant. Recently I went for check up and doctor told me that I have fibroids around my uterus. According to doctor, some woman can still conceive even though they carry fibroids. I did the operation before in year 2001 and it reoccurred. I am scared to go for the operation for the second time. Doctor said, second operation is normally complicated. And there is a chance of me loosing the uterus. Even if the op is successful, its gong to take at least one year to recover. This means I will be 36 or 37 then. Isn’t it too late to be a mother? I am so depressed. Since married my husband and I lived together in US and now I had to come back to my origin country due to immigration. It’s been one year now. I don’t know how long more it’s going to take for me to get PR. All this are so disturbing.

I did talk to my husband about adopting a child. He totally refused it. Please tell me what to do. Is there a paath so that the op will be successful and I get my PR fast so that I can be with my husband.
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Dear one,
you need to relax and you need to find supportive women to talk to about your situation. Do research and check out what other women have been through that are in your situation. Then take up Yoga and start learning to relax and meditate.

I have heard of many women adopting a child and then after a year or so, they conceive and have their own birth child.

Stop worrying about your age. Women have been known to conceive well into their 40's.

You can go to: www.3ho.org and click onto the prompt: 3ho women. I would like you to make contact with some women to network and share info.

Then, you can do a shabd for attracting a saint giver or hero:

Recite this shabd 11 times a day for 1000 days. "Satgur saachai dee-aa bhayj...." It is Asa Mehela 5...and you should be able to copy it from SIKHNET's home page...SHABDS FOR PRINTING.

Then their is a kriya in Kundalini Yoga called SAT KRIYA, which someone should teach you and you can do daily as well.

Many blessings to you for success.
SKKK