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Summary of Question:	Re:What Do Sikh Girls Think.......
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Saturday, 6/11/2005 1:09 PM MDT

Hey, I am 22 yr female. and i have to say you are lucky that you have not been physically involved with anyone yet. Many people who have made this mistake before marriage will wish to be in your situation. I ADMIRE MEN like you who have restrained themselves.

My parents want me to get married and i always tell my friends i want to marry a guy who has not had a gf and definitely has NOT been physcially involved with another women. i have saved myself mentally, emotionally and physically for my soul mate and i expect the same from my future husband.

dont make any mistakes due to pressure or soceity, the world we live in today encourages youth to have sex at a young age but TRUST ME it will be SOO much special with your soul mate, just the way God intended. There is a reason that even Gurbani says we must not have physcial relationships before or out of marriage cos its impure and creates insecurities and uncertainties. A physical relationship within a mariage is pure, each kiss, each hug is special but out of marriage its lust and prostitution.

DON'T FEEL ASHAMED, YOU ARE SO LUCKY, ASK THOSE WHO HAVE MADE THE MISTAKE OF BEING INTIMATE BEFORE MARRIAGE WITH PEOPLE WHO WERENT THEIR SOUL MATES. You are LUCKY.

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Thank you so much for your reply. It is much more powerful for guys to hear it from a young woman as yourself. Blessings. GTKK