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Summary of Question:	Marraige
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 11/25/2003 2:32 AM MST

Hello and Thanks in Advance.

I was wondering if there is any paath that i can do to get a good husband. By good husband i mean a guy who is understanding, loves gurbani with his heart, loves guru ji from his heart, tries his best to follow guru's teachings and can also be an inspiration for me as i myself love gurbani and sikhism. I might be sounding silly but if there is any particular type of paath that i can do to get a caring and spiritual husband, i would really appreciate if you let me know.

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Sat Nam! You attract a soul of similar caliber and growth to you. It is your own projection that resonates with the other soul. If you are steady in your own sadhana and deepen your own relationship with your Guru, your frequency will change and you will attract a mate of higher caliber. There is no particular shabd to sing. Just work on your own relationship with God, and on your own consciousness. Keep your heart open and let your radiance shine on everyone. The Guru will take care of your affairs, and if you are to marry, the man will come to you naturally - attracted by your radiance and projection. In other words, don't worry about marriage or devote any time to thinking about it. Work on your own marriage to your Guru and let him take care of finding you a husband.

.....G

FYI: also it is understood that reading Shabd Hazaaray (maajh m. 5) brings one's soul mate.