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Summary of Question:	Sons Present Past Future
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Monday, 2/23/2004 9:38 PM MST

wahe guru ji ka khalsa wahe guru ji ki fateh

with respect to you
our son, he was intelligent boy n studios(IQ 163/200) did not get good results in 12th class,still got engineering seat in good college for electronics n communication branch last year, first semester cleared but in the end of 2nd semester came to know he didnot attend classes n was not allowed to sit in exams for attendence shortage.for that he was sitting at home for 8 months n i found that u tell him anything to correct his routine , do path properly, not to be disrespectful to parents , etc.he doesnot listen to anyone n says my motto of life is donot trust anybody only ur self.he is interested in playing computer games , wasting time for nothing , sleeping ,taking lot of time for even changing clothes to irritate us------.

want to know being our only son,{ turban wearing(from class 8th onwards, doing japji sahib from the age 4-5), good beard, good thinking of religion,he is being praised by every one but he is not thinking about making his future seriously, he is not a pampered child at all. doesnot get early morning, not bathing everyday no routine, no transparency , reasoning all the time for everything we tell him. not manupulative,so much about him, helping nature also}want him to be as simple as he is but he should think about his studies .
gurbani ,n familys respect (before doing anything)

plz tell me which mantra n path to be done for his betterment ,his better future, his better nature his better thinking,his better attitude towards life n family. if u have any suitable answer plz send to us we believe in waheguru.

i have faith in almighty, given me so much a son , a good husband , n family i donot need anything else but being parent u must b knowing that for mothers most worring thing is future of their children.

mother

(REPLY) Sat Nam, dear "mother" -- yes, I can imagine how sad you feel, and how much you would like to see your son live up to his potential. It is not uncommon for adolescent boys to go through a really obnoxious period of rebellion, however, in this case, I am wondering if there is some school counselor that you could speak with, and find out if there was more happening at school that caused him to stop attending classes. I certainly would suggest that you pray for him, and the shabd, "Mata Kee asees" is a mother's prayer for blessing her son, so learn that, and sing it. And you may wish to chant the mantra that worked for me, when my son was in trouble. If you would like the instructions for it, kindly email me directly at [email protected] SP