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|In Need Of Help!!!!!
|Monday, 10/04/2010 10:20 PM MDT
I'm going through a very tough patch in my life. I'm in love with this guy who is a few years older than me and I have been for 3 years. He is an amridhari gursikh and I come from a strict amridhari family. I am working on tying a dastaar and plan to take amrit in a few years. The problem is that I am completely in love with this guy. I see him on a frequent basis and I don't know what to do. I cry thinking of how I will never end up marrying him anyways and it really upsets me. Also, I can't stop thinking of him. I'm always thinking of him. How do I get rid of this love I have of him and love bani instead.
You are torturing yourself. You do not mention if he is married or engaged. Because, if he is single why not express to your parents or wise family member or even to him that you are interested in marrying him. Nothing to loose. You can recite Mera Man Loche to not be seperated from your beloved or Bhand Jamee-ai....to eliminate your phobia and secure your grace and protection and respect. Blessings, SK