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Summary of Question:	Sex With Wife
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 12/11/2003 12:47 PM MST

I like having sex with my wife everyday and she enjoys it too. I dont understand why you think that is wrong. Guruji never said anything about giving up pleasure. Also I do not believe that you should be answering sexual questions without expertise in the field. There are several experts in the field who vast knowledge such as Sue Johanson. You should be referring these people with serious questions instead of giving the usual "pray everyday and it will be ok"

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Sat Sri Akal,

I have read the previous response and agree with it 100%. Guruji told us to control Kaam - if you have controlled that then everything is ok. It is true, we shouldn't give up pleasure.. BUT, you have to realize that once you enjoy the pleasure of Naam, all other pleasures are meaningless and unfulfilling. You have to find your own path to Naam.

oh, by the way, if one prays everyday, then everything will indeed be ok.

Gur Fateh,
HSD