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Summary of Question:	Marriage Problem
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Sunday, 12/28/2008 10:44 PM MST

Sat Sri Akal ji

I am a 25 yr old married sikh woman from Canada.
I was very happily married but suddenly things have started to change in my relationship with my husband. He doubts my feelings when i say anything to him and tells me that i m being fake to him. He has even started swearing across my face. I m shocked to see him changing like this. It was our love marriage and we have been married for 3 yrs now though we have known eachother for over 7 years and were seeing each other for 4 years before getting married. He was never like this and he tells me now that he doesnt feel love between us anymore.
Divorce is not the solution for me, i would not be able to leave him. I love him and care for him a lot. Everything concerning him makes me tensed and i dont want our relationship to break. Please help me.
Is there any shabad that i can do to save my marriage?


I appreciate all your help. It's very kind of you all. God Bless all you people for doing an amazing job!
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Yes, do recite the prayer from Rehiras "Sopurkh niranjan har purkh nirinajan..........." eleven times a day for your husband always. This is to make him a saint.

As to his behevior....be very silent and feed him and care for him and ask for nothing...but keep up.
Let him be for a while and let the clarity come in a month or two as to his frustration that is coming in your face.

SK