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Summary of Question:Lonliness
Category:General Sikhism
Date Posted:Friday, 2/16/2001 10:20 AM MST

Waheguru ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ki ki Fateh


My question has to do with lonliness, I am the onyl Sikh in basically my whole state and it's been very hard for me growing up. I am entering college now andd I have felt that Ive been pyscollogically damaged, becasue I don;t talk to too many people and make judgements on them before, I have a lot of regular friends. Bu the more I hang out with them the more I become materialistic, and I even have tried to interact with more Sikhs but havent found the same intrests. My question is how can I fill this void? I know god may be able to do this and I do paat every night,but I gets me very confused. it also seems that my parents don;t understand me either, they dont allow me to have any fun ex partying,playing sports and I fel like Im getting pressured by them to stay a sikh, I have thoughs of just breaking everything getting my own place and being able to do what I wan, also my parents are afraid of letting me go out to college because they think I weill vut my hair, for some reason they have no trust in me and co

ntinually put me down for mistakes i do, If I get bad grades ect, theyre trying to do the best for me but I dont believe that it is the best for me.. i have tried praying it helps me for a little bit then again things go wrong. All I know i I am very unhappy and lonely and feel like everything I accomplish is because my parents are making me,, If I get a good grade ect they will take all the credit for it. Would it beb etter for me to change scenery and stay a sikh because my parents really don't understand and t his is leading to my lonliness everywhere. Sorry this is so long I just needed someone to talk to

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki fateh
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Greetings to you in the Name of God the light of every soul and in the Name of Guru the life of every Sikh.

I can understand how lonely you must feel.



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