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|Can He Hug Me And Kiss Me On Forehead?
|Love & Marriage
|Monday, 3/16/2009 12:34 AM MDT
I fell in love with a wonderful sikh boy, but due to some reasons he could not marry me, thanks to waheguru ji for giving me strength, I've finally moved on.
I had a healthy discussion with him and told him that though you are not my husband, I really want you to be my veer(brother) as he is my best friend, he said no as he kissed me when we were together and said he cannot forget that. I call his wife bhabhi (sister-inlaw).
He said to me that whateva has happened in life, you are still my best friend, and will always be and i love u as my best friend. He said wheneva we meet, I want to hug you as my friend and kiss you on the forehead as I adore you. I said ok but I love you as my veer and your wife as my bhabi.
He even said that he'll try to find a match for me, wheneva the right time comes.
Did I do right by saying yes to him for hugging me and kissing on forehead?
Waheguru ji ka khalsa
waheguru ji ki fateh
Dear one, if he cannot agree to be your brother then leave him forever. He is acting like a jerk and wants to string you along as you still have affection for him. Go away and do NOT let him touch you!