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Summary of Question:Friends
Category:Other
Date Posted:Sunday, 11/07/1999 6:12 AM MST

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

I have reacently disconnected from one of my long term friends, which upset her quite alot, as well as upsetting me.
I am planning to do this with all my friends - amritdhari and non.
The reason is that all through my teen years I have had a friendship which I thought was a true friendship, but in the end just to find out that the people were using me, when they did not want to know me anymore.
I was hurt badly every time.
So now I want to leave all my 'friends' so that they cannot hurt me anymore.

I am thinking now that all i need are my family and GOD.
However will God think bad of me because of my decision and the actions I am going to take, being an Amritdhari?
Im not sure of this and need to know, because I can live without friends but not without God.
You may think me silly, but I am serious.
Please help.
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

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Sat Nam,
It is very hard to get through betrayal. As long as your relationship with God is strong there should be no problem. I don?t think you need to cut everyone off in order to protect yourself. Simply put your trust and faith in God and remember that all of our other relationships are temporary.
SBK



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