Jina Singha Singhni ne Dharam layi Sees Dite, Band Band Katwaiya, Charakhriya te chade, Dharam Naihin Hariya, Sikhi Sidak KESHA-SWASA SANG NIBHAYA"
First Kesh then Swas. Swas means life.
Choice is yours. If you are true sikh remember - you can convert that sikh (i will call vishwas ghati sikh - to be polite a person on wrong way) to a true gursikh. If he loves you, tell him you want a turbaned sikh and he will become a turbaned sikh