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Summary of Question:	Love On Net
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 6/17/2003 5:06 AM MDT

Waheguru ki ka Khalsa

Waheguru ji ki Fateh


I am in love with a boy ,whom i only know from chat.I am a sikh girl, who loves sikhism more than anything in this world Sikhism is my life, yes i could forget my love if its wrong.If god tell me to leave him.
I was never intressed in makeing boyfriends like other girls in my age. My parents gave me the education that its wrong to make boyfriends.
But now it happend.I am so much in love with him. I know people say on chat there is no love but in my case there is love.
We are both in love with each other that we want to marry later.
We are longing for each other.I never meet him personally.
i love him but on the other hand i dont want to hurt my Guru Jis commands
It is worng to love someone before marigge?
I want to know is he my real and true love for me. I want to ask god for the rite way.
How can i ask god to show me what i am doing is rite or wrong?


please answer me
thanks a lot

(REPLY) Sat Nam. You are surely skating on thin ice! These net "romances" are full of hazards! You two don't know each other's emotional components, you only know words that have been exchanged, and can be very deceptive. If you both really feel there's some future foryou, then you need to tell your parents, and arrange meetings with the families. Don't risk your future on such an unknown quantity. Do you know the story of Cyrano DeBegerac? He was in love with a girl, and had his best friend write her love letters, which were so wonderful, she fell in love with "him" -- but it wasn't him at all, it was the writing! Are you both in the same city? You need a lot more information before you make any decisions whatsoever. What do you know about this person'a character, his family, his plans for the future? I wish you wisdom and Guru's guidance. Please read your banis and pray for guidance to what is "best" -- not for what you "want."

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa
Waheguru ji ki Fateh