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Summary of Question:	A Very Cruel Husband
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 11/18/2003 3:48 AM MST

If someone finds that things are going out of his/her hands because of a cruel drunkard spoilt husband who wants his desires to be fulfilled at the cost of his family, in such a situation when one is tolerating it for the past 25 years what is Waheguru's word/hukum for such a person.

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Sat Siri Akaal. Do ardas and take a hukum after asking Guru ji what is appropriate to do.
Also seek marriage counseling.
If children are involved, try to move them to a relative's house where it is safer.
Do not be afraid to seek professional or legal help. You are in UK, so there are probably organisations that help such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and family of same. Go to AA on the web and look for UK offices, then ask about support groups for families of alcoholics. GET HELP. Do not keep experiencing this alone. My guess is your karma is paid and now is time to move on.
Guru ang sang,
-DKK