Previous

Next

Ask a Question

Summary of Question:	Re: Young Sisters Please Read This...
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 6/04/2004 9:27 AM MDT

I dont understand how come a girl can let any guy even touch her. I would say it's girls fault to let anyone do such a thing to them. How can you be so bold to have sex with someone before marriage. Doesnt matter how nice the guy is... and above all, she's so young and got involved herself in guys. It was a time for her to pay more attention to her studies, to her career but I dont know where she's leading herself to...

It's perfectly okay if you like someone and you want to marry that person but if you and him cant wait till marriage then that shows right there that you both dont respect each other and there's no love between the two. Guys are guys. It doesnt matter if he's a SIKH guy or a MUSLIM guy or a HINDU guy but it does matter what kind of person you are. and just think about that girl's brother???? Her brother was scared of her boyfriend... why??? If she knows all this then why did she get involve with him????and how come she thought he's a good guy. Her brother was a coward among all. He let all this happen to his sister but stayed quiet. why???? Was he a sikh????? Sikhs are supposed to save every girl; doesnt matter if she's her sister or not; but he didnt even fight for his own sister....

Is this true or fake??? girls girls girls aapni izzat aapne hadth (our honour is in our own hands) so please be careful. that's all I want to say. I just felt like showing my views on this. Please forgive me if I've said something that hurt anyone. I dont mean to hurt anyone in any way but I just wanted to share my views on this. Thanks.

**********
reply
************
Sat Siri Akaal. Overall I agree with you, but most young men are not brought up to think that they have to protect their sisters from their boyfriends. It is as you said, honor is in the girls' own hands. No girl can blame such actions completely if she never said 'no!' in the first place; it takes two to tango. However, if the girl doesn't care about honor and wishes to degrade herself or disrespect herself to catch a guy, then that is indeed, her choice. Sad but true. Guru ang sang,
-DKK