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Summary of Question:	Abuse Of Sikh Matrimonial Site
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Sunday, 3/09/2003 3:35 PM MDT

I have been grossly disgusted with the abuse of the matrimonial section. I have been a member of Sikhnet for over five years and every year the number of individuals using the matrimonial section to lie and deceive unexpecting and honest people, espescailly girls is alarming. There should be a way in which such "sick" people who are seeking only to take advantage of others and looking for someone to "mess around" with can be reported on. There should be a rating of honesty posted along with their ad which is directly related to the level of complaints of dishonesty that the person cann't refute. Also these people should be reminded of the sole purpose of the Sikhnet Matrimonial section is for marriage minded honest people and others should find other avenues for their pathetic attempts to prey on the honest, since it will not be tolerated on this website for Sikhs.

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Wahe Guru Ji Ka Khalsa
Wahe Guru Ji Ki Fateh.

Please, if anyone has any negative experience with any of the people listed on the Matrimonials such as you have described, contact SikhNet IMMEDIATELY. We have banned people from the Matrimonial site before and will continue to do so. But we need to have information about abuses and have that information verified in order to put the ban into effect.

Email complaints to: [email protected].

Our team is also looking into some of the ideas you have suggested. Ultimately, though, for people who want to play malicious tricks on others, even a rating system can be used as a tool to fool someone. It is so very important, especially for Sikh women, to exercise caution when getting to know someone over the Internet. PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING ARICLE on Matrimonial Safety Tips:

http://www.sikhmatrimonials.com/sikhnet/register.nsf/c30b7ff6c365f7db87256431006abaf2/5adaaa13d3332bc8872569b3005e9411!OpenDocument

The purpose of SikhNet Matrimonials is to provide a safe avenue for Sikhs who are serious about finding a life-long, committed, legal marriage. Sikh Matrimonials is NOT a dating service. Help us help you by letting us know if you experience any type of deception and abuse from any of the people listed on our site. We are here to serve you.

Wahe Guru Ji Ka Khalsa,
Wahe Guru Ji Ki Fateh.

Sincerely,

Ek Ong Kaar Kaur Khalsa
Communications Director, SikhNet