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Summary of Question:	Help Help Waheguru Ji Help Me ,Help Me,Helpme
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Sunday, 4/22/2001 8:41 AM MDT

i am 28 year old well educated with very spiritual & amritdari parents in india ,i cut my hairs but keep the values what my parents taught me . i feel they took us so high from these normal people level, may thats why i am having problem.

PROBLEM---I got married in 97 with the well educated professional person, who does not have good chracter & his parents are responsible for this they incourage him to go out & they want me to earn & give money to him to do those nasty things & inreturn give 20 $ a month my allowence, i solved the money problem ,i can accept anything but not chracter & they all are like that . time of marriege they told opposite that they are very religious minded . they cheated .
now i dont meditate, i cry many times its like falling from the sky.
but my question is what should i do?
i prey every day for my husband so waheuru gives him some brain.
his parents do path but then they do this kind of things , doesn't Guruji punish them ? if u do bad things & do litle patth that means it is acceptable.
i need ur help so nobody's daughter suffer through this bc/ they have another son & they want to marry a simple girl who will feed wash for his son & son can have his own life ,their is no husban wife relation just living together.
i will give their add. name & everything so our gursikh girls don't come in there network. they are the worst people on the earth , it is hard to explain what they did to me .but i want to save other girls . they have their faces coverd very nicely it took me 2 years to know them.
when nobody is around i cry i yell & use bad names for them & ask waheguru to punish them . but i dont have peace of mind.
tell what should i dobc/ that is the person i loved so much .
sat sri akal.
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A woman who is being abused should seek asylum and support from an agency that offers help to abused women. Human rights violations are not the right of a husband or inlaws. To be a Sikh is to be righteous and to be kind to all.

Be kind to yourself and help yourself now. Correct the situation or leave it.