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Summary of Question:	My Soulmate Is A Punjabi Girl Im A White Sikh, Is It Wrong To Comit Suicide
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Monday, 5/07/2007 4:32 AM MDT

Sat Sri Akaal

Im a white sikh from texas, my soulmate is a punjabi lady originally from amritsar. We have been dateing for 2 and 1/2 years now. Things were great but her mother got a divorce from her abusive father in india, and moved here. Her mother says she likes me but I can see in her eyes , she is terrified of american men. She watches jerry springer , psychic dectives , cops ect and I can tell she is so scared of americans and her daughters love for me. It is obvious that even though she says she wants to marry me she wont be able to , I went to diwalli feastival and I was the only white guy with a punjabi girl of 1/2 a million people, I read sri guru granth sahib but haven't found any reason not to comit suicide so I can go on to the next incarnation. My only worry is that if I die at a different time I may not meet her again at the right time, be too old ect. I prayed and the guru had her send me the devdas movie the next day so I guess I have got my answer. She says she could never live with me either so maybe in the next life we could be togather? any advice appericiated Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh .

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Reply
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My dear son,
You are very confused. Suicide is not a solution. This life is a gift of God to you. Your soul has been incarnated in a human body which is the highest gift of all. Challenges in life are the daily diet of a Sikh. Your love for this women is a challenge that has brought you to the feet of the Guru. This is a great blessing.

Stop thinking that you know everything about her and her Mom. Take your love and let it give you inspiration to read and study the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. This is the way to lighten your way. Through your love and devotion to your spiritual path and with kindness you can win the hearts of these women who carry great pain in regard to men. Do not worry do not be sad.....breathe and recite the Mool Mantra of the Guru every day for 31 minutes. Find your strength and find your will to accept God's will and be a beautiful man of grace with love and gratitude.

"Ek ong kar, Sat Naam, Kartaa purakh, The creator of this Creation is ONE.
Nirbou, Nirvair, Akaal Murat, Ajoonee, This is realized by the grace of the
Sai-bhang, Gur prasaad, Jaap. True Guru. Who is without fear, without
Aad Sach, Jugaad sach, Hai bhee sach. anger, revengeless, the undying picture
Naanak hosee bhee sach" of God. MEDITATE! He is true in the beg-
inning.
True through all the ages and true even
now and this truth shall ever be TRUE.
Get someone to help you with pronunciation. This will give you a spritual and physical base.

Blessings to you,
skkk