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Summary of Question:	Dillema
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 11/10/2005 3:39 PM MST

Hi there,

I am about to get married in nov'05. and I guess the dilemma I am going thru is not a unique one. But still, I need some help coz I am the one going thru it.
mine's will be an arranged marriage. My parents introduced me to 2 girls.
Lets say A and B. Both are beautiful.
Things about 'A'
1. she likes me and I like her too
2. she doesnt have a mom ( she's expired) and she doesn't have a brother also.
3. Her financial condition is not that gud
4. She has everything that I need in my life partner (she is too nagging though but then I want some body who is a bit nagging)
5. She is emotional and kiddish( not that practical)
6. She is a teacher (unlike comuters or engg, or doctor)

Things about 'B'
1. She is intelligent and very practical and a bit egoistic
2. her family is very well settled ( financially very well doing)(shaadi dhoom dhaam se hogi....u know the social issue in the society)
3. She has a big family including mom and brother.
4. She is into convention career (MBA)
5. She wants to play a lead role in the family.

my parents support 'B' coz of all the plus points and
I support 'A' coz I think She has everything that one looks in a life partner.
My problem is I want to do something in which everybody is happy.
I dont know what to do.
---reply

Think carefully about who will be the best wife and mother to your children. If you look at SikhNet Matrimonials, there are many questions couples should ask before marriage. You are the one that is going to have to live with this woman for the rest of your life. Make sure who ever you choose is the best for you. Maybe neither is best. This is one of the most important decisions of your life. Who do you want to be by your side in all situations in life? Blessings. GTKK