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Summary of Question:	Great Dilemma
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 11/13/2008 3:38 PM MST

well 1.5 years back i met amritdhari girl and i liked her a lot, it made me took amrit. Then we were very good friends and i always wanted to commit to her, but she was not prepared. But due to some unavoidable circumstances she got engaged to one chardikala singh. This shattered me , i slandered both of them, i was depressed , cudn't concentrate on my guru and studies. But still she kept talking to me and helped me a lot.The problem is that i dont know whether if i keep talking to them , will it affect their relationship and the thought of leaving her completely makes me go crazy, so caught in a vicious circle, plzz help.

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Dear one,
She inspired you to the Guru. Now look directly to the Guru for your inspiration. Let her be your friend
and you be a friend to her Chardi Kala Singh if you can. There are many other great girls and the best way to them is to work on yourself. Be grateful. She inspired you and now take your personal hukam daily and let the Guru inspire you and guide you and be your friend.
Blessings,
SK