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Summary of Question:	Gursikh Guys Go For Looks When Marrying
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 1/06/2004 12:17 PM MST

Sat sri akal to everyone,

many congratulations on guru gobind singh jis birthday.

this is just a general thing i wanted to say to see if anyone else ever noticed or its just me being silly.

When it comes to marraige it seems as though Gursikh boys would rather go for looks rather than a gursikh girl, and i belive the reason for this is because gursikh girls usually have hair on there face and dont do there eyebrows. We as gursikh girls also want to look good so we use bleach to cover our dark hair on our faces.

I find this annoying as you never find a gursikh girl saying anything bad about the appereance of a gursikh guy.

I understand that u have to be attracted to the person u r about to marry but that doesnt mean to be attracted to them they must be so good looking, sometimes the personality of the person can make u attracted to them.

The only resaon im saying this is as i have seen this many times: gursikh guys marring non-gursikh girls ot gursikh girls who remove there hair.

Just wanted to know what everyone else thought about this.

By the way guys ur wicked without this site life my wouldnt be the same, u have helped me so much and u dont even know as i cannot explain in words.


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Sat Nam! Thank you for your kind words about the youth forum. It is a privilege to serve here. You are right about outward appearances. Two souls need to match up. It is the light in the eyes; the cherdi kala; the open heart; the spirit of seva and community that are important. It is better to wait for the soul of matching caliber and frequency than to go for outward appearances. Guru Ji delivers the marriage partner at the proper time. It is most important to not compromise one's values for benefits. Those who stand fast are Guru's beloveds.

.....G