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Summary of Question:	How Can I Marry To A Man Who Is American And Christain And I Am A Sikh?
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 10/17/2002 10:38 AM MDT

hai, i am 18 years old and living in america in NJ. i am in my high school and i love my classmate too much his name is Justin when i go to home i miss him too much and dont know about him that he loves me or not? can u tell me what i can do with this situation? i even cant say him that i love him and i cant live without him. my family is gursikh but i dont know i cant controll myself whenever i saw him. he is a sophmore in high school and working after shool in the mcdonald's. i always live with him in the gym class but i dont have too much strength to say him anything we just talk about everything else. he is also fine with me but now i always miss him every second. can u tell me what can i do with thissituation? please reply me as ssoon as u can?

i will very thanksful to u if u give me very good answer and a excellent suggestion so that i can get him.
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Sounds like you have a crush on this guy. You say that you want to "get him" as though he is a box of cookies that you can buy in the store.

I would suggest that you spend some time at home making a study of "what makes a good husband". Ask your family what the qualities are of a good husband and a good marriage. What makes people happy in life is a good beginning.

Then, objectively watch Justin, and start writing down the qualities in him that you like and the qualities in him that you dislike. Ask him about his idea of marriage and what does he want in life.

Your goal is to learn about yourself. When you can step back from your overwhelming feelings, you can find out about your own self and what you are really needing to do to find happiness in life. Happiness in life is not some "cute guy".

SKKK