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Summary of Question:	Advice To "Like Guy"
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 7/15/2003 12:18 AM MDT

Hi,

It seems that you aren't "Experienced" with guys, this could you be your first big deal crush? It seems that way, please i am not trying to judge u or offend you. Well...from what you wrote, it seems that he doensn't want a committment, he might have just gotten out of a relationship, or a bad experience, or u might not be what he is looking for at the moment (thats the hardest to accept!). Guys don't look for "good girls", the one's they can take home to their mothers. In college, usually guys want to date around, get it, (u know what) and move on...committment doesnt come around untill they feel like its time to put an effort into a relationship. From my experiences, i have been lucky and not had my heart broken BUT guys r as crazingly confusing as girls are. So don't take anything personally! DONT EVER TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY! Your a beautiful person inside and out. DONt decide if hes "worth it", let HIM PROVE It to you that hes worth it. When the guy puts in effort...u can tell if he's worth it or not. DOn't allow these "Experiences" to come in the way of ur self-confidence and ur relationship with Waheguru...in a perfect world, we would have nothing but waheguru, but reality is daily stuff like school and job,and traffic jams, and starbucks...guys..can be interferences, tackle them one by one, day by day, but end of day...think our beloved Waheguru. Gotta love him, thats one guy whose WORTH it!