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Summary of Question:	Problem In Family
Category:	Hair
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 4/16/2003 10:51 PM MDT

Hello

My Problem is that last night while passing through my brother's room.
i saw thah my bhabi is trimimg her hair and my brother was helping her in this
While in my bhabi never leaves hair open she tye them a bun.
Shall i tell my parents as they ar amrithari i think create very tense situation
in my house please tell give me guidenes.

thanks.
(REPLY) Sat Nam. What good would it do for you to tell your parents what you saw? What your brother and his wife are doing is between them and God and Guru. It is not your place to tell your parents. You may want to tell your brother that you saw them cutting her hair, but other than that, again I ask, what benefit would it be for anyone for you to tell your parents? Do you think they would stop the hair cutting? Maybe. But you already know it would upset your parents. Each person has his or her own relationship to God and Guru, and unless we are a parent or teacher, it is not our job to interfere with how a Sikh lives up to his/her vows. By all means pray for your brother and his wife and leave the rest to God and Guru. blessings, SP