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Summary of Question:	About So Called "Sikh" Girls
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Monday, 6/02/2003 7:23 PM MDT

Hi,

This is more of a comment rather than a post, and I'm not really a youth (I'm 25), and I would post this as a discussion topic but I'm not a member. What I want to say is that sikh girls do not exist anymore, at least not in Western society (don't know about India, but I hear it is just as bad there). What do I mean? I'm nearing the age to get married and I've been talking to so-called "sikh" girls in the U.S. I have met many many "sikh" girls and have heard about even more of them. This is what I'm looking for in a Sikh girl: she must keep her hair and she must not drink alcohol. That's it. That is all I am looking for and after 1.5 years I have yet to find one. 95% of the girls don't even keep their hair, and yet they have the gall to call themselves sikh. What's even worse is that I know personally of so many girls who keep their hair and even do kirtan at the gurdwara, but on Friday nights you'll see these girls on the dance floor, drunk, and "freakin" with random guys. Is this what sikh girls are now? If that's so, then I much rather marry a white christian girl who at least has good family values and doesn't drink. You wanna know the kicker? Someone I know was drunk and on the dance floor with random guys 1 WEEK BEFORE HER WEDDING to a sardar guy. What the h*** is that?

(REPLY) Sat Nam. I think this should be posted so that Sikh girls can read it! Blessings!