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Summary of Question:	Young Sikh Sisters Plzzzzz Read...
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Monday, 5/31/2004 11:47 AM MDT

i received this forward from my friend and my heart goes out to the girl who wrote this.......

HI EVERYONE, MAJORITY OF U PROBABLY DONT KNOW ME CUZ I'M JUST SENDING THIS E-MAIL OUT TO RANDOM PPLE, BUT PLEASE ALL SIKHS TAKE OUT 5 MINTS AND READ THE ENTIRE E-MAIL
I FOUND THIS ARTICAL AT WWW.SIKHI.COM AND THOUGHT THAT ALL THE SIKHS SHOULD READ IT. AFTER READING IT IF U R INTERESTED IN TRYING TO SOLVE THIS CONFLICT THEN PLZ FEEL FREE TO E-MAIL ME BACK. I REALLY WANT TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, BUT I NEED DEDICATED PPLE AND THEIR SUPPORT FOR IT.
>My sisters we are punjabis worst enemies...
>I am a 25 year old Punjabi women; I would like to share important and
>devastating experiences of my life with my young sisters. All I hope
is
>that my sisters dont make the same mistakes as me and my friends. I
was
>brought up in a fairly religious family, my brother kept a turban. I
went
>out with a few Punjabi boys when I was in school, but they where all
the
>same all they used to do was chat about cars, drink at lunchtime and
get
>BULLIED by the PAKIZ. All my other friends used to go out with pakiz
and
>they used to tell me film stuff how Abdul beat up this boy, he took me
>there, here and so on. All my boyfriend did was get his turban
knocked
>off walked me home in different directions to avoid his enemies. So I
got
>bored and dumped him. When I went college I was introduced by my
friend to
>a boy called sheraz khan. At first he was a girls dream come true
nice,
>polite, and respectful any girl would have fell in love with him. I
started
>missing lessons and used to go to the park with him and his friends. I
>started smoking and drinking as he used to buy it for me. I lost my
>virginity to him. After about two years when I was 19, I was at his
flat I
>loved him and wanted to marry him. So I said to him you have a flat,
I
>loved you and want to marry you I dont care if I have to leave home.
I
>expected him to say its about time you asked, but I was in the BIGGEST
>shock of my life, he said FUCK YOU SIKH BITCHZ you thought I was going to
marry
>a kaffir who has had SEX B4 marriage, Im going to marry a pure girl
from
>back home you were just a thing on the side to get me by. I started
to
>cryand went for the front door but one of this mates stopped me,
there
>was about 5 of them. Then sheraz said YOU CANT LEAVE that EASY you
owe me
>Ive spent so much money on Drugs, drink and shopping for you. Then
they
>all gang raped me. I had no where to go I couldn't tell the police
because
>I didn't want my family to find out, because if they disowned me I
would
>have no where to go. My brother was scared of sheraz and his crew.
They
>used to knock his turban off in school he couldn't do nothing then and
I
>knew he still feared them no matter what they had done. My best friend
who
>was going out with a paki suffered more than me. The pakiz drugged her
up
>and gang raped her. The last words she could remember before the drugs
hit
>her was 2 boys saying Big Ali is going to pay us £2000 if we can send
this
>Sikh SLAG to Pakistan for prostitution. When she regained conscience
she
>somehow managed to phone me, but the call got cut off when she was
caught
>by one of the pakiz (I have never heard her seen her again). There are
so
>many Punjabi girls in the same situation who have no where to go and
have
>had to stay with pakiz and live in dishonour for their survival. They
have
>no other choice this is growing problem within British Punjabi
Families.
>Thereis no support from the community and no one shows mercy. The
Punjabi
>boys should defend themselves and their sisters with more honour and
>dignity. That will stop them looking like PUSSYz and make girls like
them
>more, because a girl wants a man that can look after himself. This
problem
>is a reality; make sure it doesn't happen to you or your matez. If the
>Punjabi community dosen't deal with these kinds of problems the
>consequences are going to be devastating. A GOOD SOLUTION WOULD BE A
>PUNJABI COMMUNITY ADVICE CENTRE IN EACH AREA THAT WILL HELP GIRLS LIKE
ME
>GET SUPPORT AND COMFORT.I attend to remain anomunous after deep
>consideration for time being for the best. However if in the future I
have
>do come forward I will not be ashamed because life is a lesson. Humans
make
mistakes. PLEASE SISTERS DON'T BECOME PUNJABIS WORST ENEMIES 12/02/03
I got this sent to me and the person who sent it told me to send it to as many sikhs as possible...thanks

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Thank you for your contribution. I am not posting this to ignite prejudice towards any group...but rather to bring awareness and to open discussion. Anyone who wants to comment, please feel free to do so. gtkk