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Summary of Question:	Forbiden Love
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Saturday, 3/17/2001 11:08 AM MDT

I AM IN A VERY SERIOUS SITUATION AND I NEED HELP. LAST YEAR A FREIND OF MINE USED MY MOBILE PHONE TO CALL A FREIND OF HIS BUT THERE WAS NO ANSWER. ONCE SHE NOTICED THE NUMBER SHE CALLED BACK ON MY PHONE. WE GOT TALKING AND AFTER A WHILE I BEGAN TO LIKE HER AS SHE DID ME. WE NOTICED THAT WE HAD LOTS IN COMMON. EXCEPT THAT SHE IS HINDU WHEREAS I AM SIKH. SHE ALSO LIVES IN LUTON, 50 MILES FORM ME. WE TALKED FOR HOURS EVERYDAY. I THEN BEGAN TO USE MY FATHERS PHONE, FOR FIVE MONTHS IT WENT UN-NOTICED UNTILL A FEW DAYS AGO. HE GOT AN ANNORMOUS BILL. THE THING IS IT IS A COMPANIES PHONE SO THEY PAY THE BILL ANYWAY. HE PHONED UP THE NUMBER ON THE BILL AND TOLD THE PERSON ON THE OTHER LINE THAT SHE COULD NEVER SPEAK TO ME AGAIN. HE MADE ME SWEAR ON HIS LIFE THAT I WOULD NEVER SPEAK TO THE GIRL AGAIN. THIS IS IT "I LOVE HER"! I HAVE NEVER LOVD ANYONE SO MUCH IN MY LIFE. I CANT TELL THEM THAT BECAUSE I AM AFRAID OF THEM. I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART. I MISS HER SO BADLY. 4 DAYS HAVE PASSED AND WE HAVE NOT EVEN SPOKE. SH

E IS IN PAIN AND SO AM I! I HAVE PREYED EVERY NIGHT AND DAY THAT THE GURUS WATCH OVER HER AND GUIDE HER. BUT LOOK AT HOW WE MET, THIS RELATIONSHIP MUST HAVE MEANT SOMETHING, WHAT ARE THE CHANCES OF MEETING THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE DUE TO 1 MISSED CALL ON YOUR MOBILE!!

MY QUESTION IS, WHAT SHALL I DO?
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Greetings and blessings. Sequences have consequences, actions have reactions. You did use the phone quite dishonestly. Now you are reaping the effects of your actions. Thank God that this emotional feeling of "love" will also have to be relegated to a past mistake that you made. Flirtation is a very powerful emotion. You are very tied up in this blindness of a faceless imaginary relationship. You can be very greatful to God that this has been brought out into the open. Now you can clear up both your deceptiveness to yourself and your parents as well as your bout with your mental flirtation.

For your intense feelings you can start by holding your breath for 1 minute repeatedly until you can calm down. Then, try reading a hukam each day from the Guru. Let the Guru's dialogue be your true daily friend and companion to fill each day with true advice and calibre. You can find pure satisfaction to the experience of your life. Also, you probably need to exercise daily, run and sweat. God bless you.