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Summary of Question:	Luv
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 10/03/2002 6:51 AM MDT

i realy fancy this boy and he is sikh but he does not know. wat shall i do

and i am really skered that my mom and dad will find out

(REPLY) What you should do is nothing -- except become so radiant and graceful and beautiful that the RIGHT people will be attracted to you, and your parents will see and appreciate how bright and shining you are. It's really easy to "fancy" someone when you're young, and to want to do something about it, but usually that leads to problems and trouble. Don't mess up your life because of emotion. Are you a Sikh? (You said the boy is, but maybe you are not?) If you are a Sikh, do you read your banis? Do you listen to Gurbani Kirtan? DO you know what the purpose of life is? Why are you afraid your parents will find out? When we are young it is quite usual to be attracted to someone, but that doesn't mean that is the direction in which we should move. It is called "infatuation" -- and you can look it up in the dictionary. It's not love, and usually has no permanent value, in fact usually leads to a broken heart. It is said that when you live your life correctly, the right person will be drawn to you. I hope this helps a little bit. Blessings, SP