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Summary of Question:	Re: How To Make Friends
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Sunday, 7/09/2006 5:29 PM MDT

In reference to the post, how to make friends,

Gufateh Paaji/Penji,

A good book to read is How to Make Friends and Influence people by Dale Carnegie. It's a read for everyone and don't feel sad because you are faced with a situation we all go through in life. The Moderator put it best when she/he said its the quality of friends, not quantity of friends. Remember, Waheguru has made you truly unique, he's made you in the roop of himself, so if you try to be someone you arent, chances are it's not gonna go well. Remember to always be yourself.

Path is great, What i've found is singing swayiyae in the morning really lifts your soul. But my personal secret for these matters is TALKING TO GOD!!!!!! IT will work miracles for you, it has done for me in the past! Just before you go to sleep, talk to God about anything and i mean anything, because thats what he's there for, he's always gonna listen to you, even when you own mum doesnt want to hear you, GOD IS ONE PERSON WHO WILL NEVER IGNORE YOU. Just lay it down, "God, i do path, you know i love you, but this is what im being faced with......."

Question him and answers will appear in front of your face in your daily activities. I met this girl once who was telling me how she once was so upset, she had a deep conversation with God the night before. The next day, she trodded along to work and whilst she was having a conversation with her colleague who was talking to her about her dream, her answer was in that dream! she sed she could not believe it and went home crying and just said "God, i cant belive how much love you have for us"

I Wish you the best of luck, but as hard as it is to say, don't get upset, you're a son/daughter (sorry i couldnt tell if you were a M/f) of Guru Gobind Singh Ji, who even when he lost all he had, started praising God in the forest!!!!!!

WaheGuru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh!!