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Summary of Question:	Seeing Hindu..In Luv Wit Sikh
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 3/21/2006 9:15 AM MDT

yo sapnin

i'm a sikh gurl been wiv a half white/half hindu guy 4 a few mnths but i been in luv wit a sikh guy 4 while now in it. cant get wid d sikh guy, i got d the hindu. im now tinking abutt marrage n it gana b d sikh guy 4 marrage in it. 4 dis 2 appen, i av 2 break up wid d hindu, but i aint sure if d sikh guy wil marry me. need advice yeah bruvz.
tanx laterz

(REPLY) Sat Nam. What you're not sure of,is who and what YOU are! Being "in love" with one guy, and being with another at the same time indicates that you're confused, emotional and definitely not ready for marriage. Living in your emotions, not able to make up your mind is not going to make you happy. What kind of wife and mother can you be? Where is the concept of loyalty and being faithful? What are you doing in your life to recognize and connect with your soul? As a human being you are more than mind and body and emotions, and if you are neglecting the very essence of your life, that which breathes in you, your spirit, then you are wasting the precious gift of life, the ultimate purpose of which is to experience the divine IN you. Read your banis. Meditate. Stop messing around. God bless you with wisdom, SP