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Summary of Question:	Re: Infedility
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 2/25/2003 6:30 AM MST

Hello,

I just wanted to reply to the guy who's friend is having an affair. I agree with the answer that was given but after I read the post. I have to ask is it really any of your business? Just tell your friend not to talk about this affair with you no more, you should've told him months ago after you found out he wasn't joking. This guy is a complete loser and doesn't deserve his wife but you don't know the real reason why he has strayed!! You don't know what goes on behind closed doors. For all you know his wife already knows about the affair. This is a tricky situation that can backfire on you and your wife.

At the end of the day if you do go and tell his wife and somehow they work through this, you will be the bad guys and that's your friendship over. This is something she will have to find out for herself. No third party should be involved whether it family or friends.

You say if it was you, you would want your friends to tell you if your spouse was having an affair but have you really been in that situation and know what it's like to be told your husband is cheat! I strongly recommend you stay away from this. Make it absolutely clear to your friend that you do not want to hear about this affair anymore!

Please let me know what the outcome was I think I might be late with this post and you have already told this woman. Either way let us know.

Regards