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Summary of Question:What Should I Do? Help Me Please.
Date Posted:Friday, 10/29/2010 9:02 PM MDT

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

For a few weeks now, my head has been hurting because of thinking about something which has really confused me and I really need your words to soothe my brain and hurt and to help me get out of this confusion for once and for all.

There is this guy at the Sikh Gurudwara that I attend from time to time. He's a sikh and religous and strict in his discipline. Anyways we have had moments when we had eye contact going on between us. Does this mean anything or is it normal for a guy to look at a girl into her eyes for a maybe over a second from far and then turn his head. We don't even talk. He has called me sister though once and then now this eye contact thing, I just don't understand. Would you have any idea why he does this with me? Is he flirting? Or does he find me attractive that he looks at me in a sly way sometimes, as if I don't notice, but I do and now it's getting confusing.

What should I think his intentions are? Should I just ignore him completely? I don't like this looking into each others eyes thing because it stirs up emotions inside me. WHAT is he THINKING??!! If he likes me or something then I find it it weird because he has called me sister once.

Please help me!

Thanks a million!

Waheguru ji ka khalsa
Waheguru ji ki fateh

<<<<< REPLY >>>>>

The language of the eyes is very subtle. He is in the same dilemma that you are in. He doesn't want to be forward, or disrespectful, but he is interested, as are you. Our relationship is always brother and sister until we become wife and husband. Sit next to him at Langar and talk together and begin to get aquainted. Let the Guru arrange the rest.


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