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Summary of Question: | Help!!! Please I Cannot Take It Anymore! |
Category: | Love & Marriage |
Date Posted: | Friday, 4/09/2004 3:36 PM MDT |
also my father tells me he is going to move away and askes me to join him.. i am scared that if this occurs and i decline that he will really do something wrong.
my father hardly goes to temple and prays . my mother prays but due to him not going because of transportation, my sister and i do not go to temple either. i am very scared and confused please give me advice.
ssa
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First of all, you are not responsible for your father's behavior. Secondly, don't take sides. It is between your parents. It is not your problem. If you made an appointment with a counselor for your parents would they go? Probably not. Ask them. You can't force them to go. You can try to make a bargin with your father. "I will live with you as long as you are seeing a counselor. If you do not I will not live with you. If you start and stop before healing has occurred, I will move out." You can create some boundaries with your parents. You can also be there for your sister. Reassure her that no matter what happens it's going to be OK. She needs you right now. Make an arrangement with a friend or another member of the temple to drive you, your sister and your mother to Temple. You need to be going. It will help you all feel better to be connecting to The Infinite, and the support of the sangat will be comforting as well. I hope this is helpful. let us know how it is going. GTKK