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Summary of Question:	Sikhi
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Sunday, 3/24/2002 10:00 AM MDT

hi there i just wanteed to ak you that if a person is into sikhi is he supposedd to forget about his family does sikhi say you do that? my husband is into sikhi he has no time for me he doesnt tkae me anywhere we hardly tlak he is with his friends all the time while i am sitting at home

wot am i supposed to do
please help
thanks
mrs kent

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The path of the Sikh is the path of a householder. The issue of your husband having no time for you has nothing to do with Sikhi. You already know the answer to your question. It is a problem with your marriage. Is your husband willing to sit with you and discuss the situation? If so, perhaps you can help him understand your feelings. If not, the problem is a deeper one and you will both need to get some assistance, perhaps from a trusted friend or counselor. Bow to the Guru, and with your forehead at his feet, give your problem to him and let the resources you need come to you.

.....G