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Summary of Question:	My Jura Is A Target
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Thursday, 8/08/2002 3:59 PM MDT

sat sri akal

when ever me and my brother get into fists fights he always grabs my jura and pulls it of and then pulls my hair. then my head starts hurting . and he's older

i dunno wat to do theres no point in talking because he never listens to anyone

also just becuase i pt my jura in a hair band for support he says i have a fake jura and im a fake singh and tells me to cut my hair all the time

and he doesnt understand that i newly grew my jura this year so of course its going to be small

and my bro has cut hair to so who is he to tell me all this crap thats not even tru im a singh gursikh and im proud

and he said that now im gonan grab ur jura its ur weakness

how can i stop this insane man???

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Sat Siri Akal.

There's nothing you can do to stop the insanity of your brother. He's made a choice to turn his back on his Guru by cutting his hair and, when he looks at you, the pain of his decision haunts him - so he is trying to undermine your committment to growing your hair. It is his pain, not yours. Remember that. The best think you can do is train yourself to be able to beat him whenever he picks a fight with you. That way, he will have to think twice before he starts something. In the meantime, don't worry - just stay focused on your path and let your brother walk his. Love him, but leave him to the consequences of his choices. He isn't your problem to solve.

All love and God bless.

GPK