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Summary of Question:	Lossing My Best Friend.
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Friday, 7/29/2005 11:31 PM MDT

Recently I feel like me and my best friend have been lossing touch. I have problems is my life much the same as he does is him. We've always talked about them giving each other an ear to listen. Lately I feel like me saying anything has been puching him away. I send emails and he doesn't respond. He always responded to them before. I don't know if I should ask if everything is okay or if there is something in his life he needs to talk about because I think anything I hear would be something other than the truth. What dhould I do? We call overselves brothers because we both feel our relationship is that close.

(REPLY) Sat Nam. When you say that you think he would lie to you, then I kind of wonder what kind of relationship you actually have. If you really "both" feel your relationship is so close, then I would suggest that you send him one more email, and tell him honestly that you are concerned, and ask him if there is some problem, because you value his friendship. Ask him if there is anything you have done or said to cause him to stop writing. If he doesn't respond, then just get on with your life. If he doesn't feel like communicating, then you can't force it. Meanwhile, pray for him, and for both of you to be harmonious with each other. SP