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Summary of Question:	Fibroid ... Cyst...
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Thursday, 7/27/2006 10:25 PM MDT

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

I got married for 3 years now and still have not conceive. Finally I went to see a Doctor. Accrding to Doc I have fibroid around my uterus and a cyst in my ovari. It seems thats one of the reason why I dont conceive. When I heard this a burst in tears. I am so old to wait. I am 34. Doc said I have to go for operation to remove the fibroid and cyst. and the is a risk of me loosing my uterus. If it happen I can never become a MUM. that is so sickening. Please help me, I'm sure god is not that cruel. Please give me a Shabad for getting a pregannt and for a successful operation. Why do woman have to go through so many things??? The op is on Aug 10. I need all of you to do Aardas for me.

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Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji ki Fateh !

My wife and I had the same problem. As it turns out, she did not need to have a hysterectomy, but she still could not conceive due to the loss of the fimbria at the end of the fallopian tubes. We even tried in-vitro fertilization, and my wife became pregnant, but we lost the child at the end of the first trimester by miscarriage. She was not destined to give birth.

But she was destined to be a mother.

All children are gifts from the Guru. They belong to him, not to us. The souls incarnate into our homes so that we can love them, train them, give them the values and deliver them to their own destiny. We adopted two sons - we didn't seek them out. They came to us by Guru's grace. They are great gifts to us and a great blessing.

If it is your destiny to be a mother you shall be a mother. It matters not how the children come to you. It is all Guru's grace. It is his legacy, not your lineage that matters in the long run.

All love and blessings to you, and may Guru bless you with a safe and successful surgical procedure.

.....G