Some light on this situation...My husband had previous relations with 3 other girls before we got married...WHen he told me I was really upset...but after awhile I accepted it because I loved him and I wanted to be married to him.You need to ask yourself how much do you love him...and he has told u before u got married...and can you live with this. I respect my husband more because he told me before we got married...just wanted to share that with u:)