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Summary of Question:	Betrayed Again!
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 7/29/2003 6:47 AM MDT

Sat Sri Akal,

It's me again.Regarding abt my hubby yes, he is the breadwinner in the family.I'm not working.I can file for a divorce but i've got no place to stay,I have my siblings here and they have helped me out alot but to stay with them,well i don't think that's right.I can't simply just walk out of the marriage.Do you think i've done the right thing to give him this last chance?I told him that if i were to find out abt his affair again there is no looking back.He has a weak point...his kids.He loves them very much.So the only way out is to leave him and take my kids with me and find myself a good job.Plse do pray for me and my kids.Where is god in all this is going on!!!I pray to him dailybut my prayers is not being answered.Plse give me more advice on this matter.Thank you again.

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Whats keeping you from finding a good job now? Why not be pro-active and prepare your future by becoming more financially independent? Maybe you would want to go to school and get some training in something you would like. Most men like your husband can't reform. You need to be ready, so when the time comes, you will be able to provide for yourself and your children. Don't be naive. Prepare yourself. If your husband does reform, great...but it is very unlikely. Just know that he will probably be more careful of covering himself. You deserve better, your children deserve better. Get ready for what is probably coming. GTKK