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Summary of Question: | Broken Relationship |
Category: | Love & Marriage |
Date Posted: | Sunday, 3/17/2002 11:10 AM MDT |
(REPLY) Well, this is a case where "God helps those who help themselves." It's certainly painful when a relationship doesn't work out the way we want. But I think that the only way to get over your pain is to change your emotion to devotion -- that is, spend time every day meditating and praying for guidance and acceptance of the situation. You will get over this man, but it will take time. The time can be shortened if you concentrate on your own life - not his -- and really get a relationshp going with the Guru. By that I mean, spend time every day, if you can, reading from Siri Guru Granth Sahib. This will give you perspective on life and relationships. NOTHING - no relationship lasts forever, and the only thing that is permanent is our relationship with God and Guru, so put your energy into that. Do you know the shabd 'DHAN DHAN RAM DAS GUR, JI SIRIAA TINEH SAVAARIA..."? Try reciting (or chanting or singing) that 11 times a day, and call on Guru Ram Das, the Lord of Miracles to help you. Blessings, SP