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Summary of Question: | Inferiority Complex About Being Different Than Others |
Category: | Hair |
Date Posted: | Monday, 5/14/2007 8:44 AM MDT |
any advice will be highly appreciated,hoping for a prompt reply.....
waheguruji ka khalsa,waheguruji ki fateh
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My dear,
You are beautiful. handsome and radiant in the form of God and Guru Gobind Singh. You are in the form that you have been created.
First, you must have friends who are like you and can be supportive. All those cool kids at school are just kids. You are a cool kid in your own way and can be proud and happy too. Reach out to the Turbaned bearded Sikh students. If there are none at your school, then find them in the Gurdwara and in your family. Talk to them and share your experiences and tips on how to deal with challenges.
You need to find a special auntie or uncle that you can talk to and share your feelings. Generations have great wisdom and insight to share.
Being in the form of Guru Gobind Singh can also make you look so handsome and radiant and attractive. Do you think if you took off your turban and cut your hair that all your problems would be gone? Work on yourself.
Find someone with a fabulous turban and have them teach you how they tie it. Then, start exercising and working out daily so you can feel strong and healthy and confident. Find kids who are more sad than you and reach out to them in service.
In other words, find the way to lead yourself out of this complex mind and lead yourself and then you can lead others. Also, start reciting JAAP Sahib daily in the morning to build your pwoer over your very active negative mind.
Blessings,
SKKK