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Summary of Question:	To The Man Who Just Wanted To Share
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 2/27/2003 7:28 AM MST

I believe that your honesty will be much appreciated as there are many men who hide their past from their partners, which leads to heartbreak in the future.

When i read your message i thought of the situation through your fiances eyes and thought about the way i would feel in the same situation. Therefore this message is about the way i would feel and how im guessing she feels.

I am assuming that your fiance has not had any prior relationships as you had. Therefore she will feel threatend. It is very difficult going into something you have no experiance of, especially if your partner has.

I would be worried about constantly being compared to her and not being able to live up to her standard. You have experianced love and heartbreak but she may have not.

The thing you must remember is that you have gained a lot of knowledge from your relationship. Knowledge that your fiance may not have. She may worry that she is incapable to love you in the same way the first did.

If you treat her with kindness and respect (which im sure you will as you sound like a good hearted person)give her time to grow everything will be find.

Of course you deserve her love just as she deserves yours, without any hangups about the past.

Everybody deserves to be loved no matter what they did in their past

Wishing the both of you the very best
GODBLESS
:o)